RELAY is "lit", can't delete notifications

I'm running VarAC 9.2.3. RELAY is showing RED, clicking on it, shows a list of two stations holding VMAIL, and when those stations are displayed in the BEACON list, the "envelope" is shown, indicating they are holding mail.

I've contacted both stations, chatted with the operator, and they confirm that at one time they held VMAIL for me, but do not now.

I did not try to to pick up my VMAIL from them.

No messages are in my VMAIL either.

73, Joe